Author: Danny

Quit Your Bitching and Moaning!I often use this and it recently got me in trouble but I will not stop saying it to people. If it offends someone then I guess I am on the right track. I am not saying this statement with the intent to offend anyone… I actually say it with all the compassion my heart can put out there. I love people so much that I want to have an awakening of consciousness to believe in the positivity to overcome challenging moments rather than complain thinking that will be a way of dealing with it. Complaining only adds to the pain and prepares you for more negativity. It is like you addicted to the wrong things that happen in your life. Instead of looking at events that are painful in your life as a negative we need to look at these moments as opportunities to strengthen our resolve and resiliency.
Love is a great answer and it gives us clarity to find a solution in any moment of challenge in our lives. If we start from a place of love then we can repel attacks that are unwarranted. We think we are being attacked intentionally and most times we are just in the line of fire for someone else’s experience. We need to realize that. I agree there is a percentage of moments where people are attacking us personally…. Even then we can respond with love internally first and then outwardly. Internally knowing we are good and no one else’s opinion or attack can be taken personal. Outwardly not being violent and or falling into the mindset they are in.
We have to be a beacon of light showing the world and more specifically our loved ones and those close to us in our daily grind that we are positive beings being courageous fighting for a happiness mindset. Having a happiness mindset takes hard work and consistency. We have to continually know that our perception starts with an acknowledgment and an acceptance of who we are in a current state. We need to live in the (cliché) moment! Yes living in the moment and being mindful that this moment will create tomorrow. If we are in a negative state of mind in the present moment chances are we are creating a negative tomorrow by reaping what we sowed today.
Getting back to the title and my justification for continuing to say what I said….
Quit your bitching and moaning! Because you will plant of seed of negativity in your life and acknowledge that you are what is coming out of your mouth…hence….everything you are complaining about!

Do everything in your power mentally and emotionally to maintain your happiness it’s worth it. People these days would rather work hard at being miserable and make another miserable. What is there to gain by being unhappy in your life. What progress Will you make by letting your Life slip away into a sad state of mind. We all need to wake up and realize that our state of mind . will reflect in our health and our exterior circumstances like relationships. The state of mind that I’m speaking about is a happy state of mind. It is a very simple way of thinking but to embark on the journey to maintain it takes work and self discipline. Most people don’t have the courage to take that challenge of being happy every day. The first step is to admit that you’re not happy. The second step is to except that you want to be happy. The next step is to learn how to be happy and the rest will take care of itself. 

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I am happy but …… I don’t know what to do.Does this resonate with you? Are you happy and do not know what to do next? Everyday you wake up knowing what your passion is and yet still live in a fear of trying that which would give you fulfillment? We all have something we would love to do everyday for the rest of our lives. We live in a self insecure state of mind because it seems outside of our belief that we can do that thing. 

How do we get past the fear of living our passion? We can sit and work on convincing ourselves every day and struggle with that idea. I myself struggle with possibilities we are capable of and infinite number of possibilities we just have to believe we are able. 

Sincerely all we have to do is believe and truly see ourselves in that state. It is that easy? No of course not it takes hard work in thought first. Belief and faith takes courage and effort. You have to learn to change a perception that has taken a lifetime to develop. 

How do we begin? We are already happy. That is the first step. How can you let that happiness manifest your dreams? If you are truly happy and have that confidence that no matter what happens in life you always feel that sense of security from your joy on a daily basis then you have what it takes to manifest your passion and dream. 

If you are happy you have nothing to lose. If you are truly happy with yourself and your being …. adding your passion or heading towards attaining that and taking on the journey is just another experience. Pass or fail is not a choice. You are already successful because you are happy. Whether you achieve living your passion or not you will always be Happy right? So what have you got to lose?! Figure it out and do what you love! 

Letting yourself fall into depression is very easy. In this day and age it is not our fault we are surrounded by so much negative influence. We have a choice though to either fall into  everyone’s beliefs or choose our own. It takes work to stand aside from the trend.

We go to work and there is complaining and regret because people are not happy with where they are at in life. We are around family members and they are feeling the same way. We gather with our friends and the same prevails. This is the norm these days. We almost have to stay in a bubble to avoid this attitude or mindset. We drive on the highways and bi-ways there is the same mindset through their anger displayed by road rage. Unhappy people taking their rage out on the traffic. Where do we escape.

You do not have to run away from all of this thinking. You can be a glimmer of hope and or an example for others to be inspired by. We always have a choice to change the mindset to that of a positive one. It isn’t easy going against the grain. IF you decide to go against what everyone is thinking you will see an instant change in your surroundings. You will be aware of everything around you and be free of the stress of everyday life. If you learn to accept yourself for who you are and love that person in mirror you will feel better.

Guilt will leave your body. You will be able to forgive yourself and others. You will be able to love yourself and others. It always starts with you. You are the catalyst for the change in your life and the life of others in some cases. Whether you know it or not people are watching you always. Watching your every move because they look up to you. Decide to live happy. It will be the best decision you will ever make.