Every day I meet different people. I help people overcome challenges. I am
always posed with the decision to be irritated with these people because of
their urgency and the way they use me to vent and get it off of their minds and
project their frustration at me….. Or…. I can look behind the veil and wall
they build in front of me and realize they are just believing that they have to
be in the state of mind they are in for them to achieve the answer. 

Why do we always think that we have to endure the pain while we are
experiencing challenging situations? I know we have different cases where there
will be tragedy and we have a time of mourning. Most of these situations were
out of our control and therefore we have to put things into perspective to deal
with them in a safe manner. The safest manner to deal with these situations is
hardly ever the first choice a person will take when going through their
options of dealing with difficult situations.

We often choose to put our bodies through a rigorous event. We fill our
minds up with thoughts that are contradictory to what our body wants. Our body,
mind and soul wants to love and be loved while we go through this challenging
period. We tend to choose the popular path of what the majority does.  We
hardly see people rejoice when they are challenged. That takes courage to align
yourself with greatness and do what the great peaceful leaders do when face
with adversity. They Love all the time! No that is too hard. 

I have a story…..

I know a man within 3 years of his life he lost his father, brother,
divorce, lost his house and job…. Friends turned from him. During all of this
he loved everyone and embraced the radical changes in his life. One by one he
made a decision to look for the best in every situation. The more he felt pain
the more he loved himself and others. He showed gratitude in all areas of his
life that he was able to experience what he did with everyone and everything
even though it has been taken away in some cases.

It isn’t easy to feel gratitude when you lose family members suddenly. But
we have to remember the good in everyone at all times so that we are always
spending every moment and the optimal level of experience. We are not taking
for granted that the moment will be there tomorrow. We tend to take advantage
of the moment expecting tomorrow to come and we might not wake up. To be blunt
you might get shot or hit by a truck! Why the hell are you sleeping in and
texting while your baby is calling you to play!? Who gives a rats ass if you’re
tired! Get up and play with the baby!  

I have 4 children and 6 grandchildren. I love all of them. I think my family
is amazing. Very imperfect and that is why I think they are amazing. I
sometimes have rocky relationships with my children because they are
individuals and they think their own way. All I can do is love them and show
them that love when I see them, talk to them and in this day and age….text
them.

I think texting is bullshit! A wonderful facet of technology, but bullshit.
I see people looking at the floor all day long. I watch as people walk
aimlessly barely paying attention to what they will walk into if they do not
look up once in a while. They are so very intent on sending their message to
the people on the other end. Is it that important? Is it a life threatening
situation that you need to send that message? I see people eating dinner and
all of them are texting instead of sharing their meal together as a time for
bonding. Quit looking at the floor people!

Wake up. You’re dying tonight! Today is your last day. Someone told me you
were going to fall and crack your head open on the sidewalk. IF this is true
how are you going to live your last moments with your family? Are you going to
spend it texting while your innocent child is staring at you wishing you would
take your selfish ass and look at them and listen to their day at school? Or is
it more important to text someone and work about the day’s gossip. You had all
day to do that!!!!

Ok I am calm now. I am not talking about a specific person here nor am I
talking about my life. I watch and observe people and this is what I see and I
bleed inside. Have I wasted time somewhere in my life? Yes for sure I have!
Have you done half of the things on here or are you the perfect person in the
world? Point at me and there are three fingers pointing back at you!

When you gaze in the mirror to see the perfect wonderful person you are and
how amazing you are…… remember there are eyes always watching you. I always
find out the hard way when I think no one’s watching…. Someone is always
watching while you are looking down at the floor.

Quit wasting time. Laugh, smile, love and give of yourself MORE! The rest
will take care of itself. We aren’t perfect but we can LOVE perfectly.

As Always I Love You!

My Rantness will hurt my body if I do not let it out!