Philosophy

I post to share my heart and soul. My heart and soul does not want to mince its words or pretend to be something it isn’t. I am just a vessel that carries this special energy. I am getting to know my soul every day. I lived a lifetime of not listening to this stranger that dwelled inside me for 51 years. I know now that my soul craves attention. My attention. It wants to be recognized as the author of my life. I must listen now. The foregoing is expressions of my soul.

People suck! Not in the way that is bad. The societal thinking we live with is predicated by fear. Our environment is volatile and has always been on the brink of disaster. The human experience has gone through a history of change and will continue to evolve. We are just passing through to learn and teach from our experience. There are mysteries we cannot comprehend nor grasp the magnitude of importance as it plays in our life affecting and influencing others and our environment.

Bottom line we like to bitch moan and complain not looking up to see that other people are in a more challenging experience. We find fault in others when we are acting contrary to what we criticize. Hypocrisy is rampant in our lives. People like to point fingers and forget to see the three fingers pointing back at them.

All we must do is love each other and be understanding that each and every one of us has an experience that is unique. Hate, violence, ignorance, prejudice, abuse, etc. has always been there. We make it sound like it is something new and we are all going to hell. The difference now is our recording of these events and mindset thinking. The media we have is instant now. There are no filters. We are desensitized to the point that are children are losing their innocence. It is our job to protect the youth and yet we pawn the excuse as “that is the way it is”.

Love is the answer. Love? People cannot love unless they love themselves. We do not love ourselves. How do children learn how to love themselves when the things they see online are tricking them to believe that the material world is needed for them to be happy and to validate who they are as a person. They cannot be approved of unless they have enough likes in their social media account. These children are not protected from bullying and intimidation. These wonderful little souls watch the news with their parents and or watch the reality of how our society is damaged right now, they see this through the eyes of others on social media, television, games, their dysfunctional single mothers and fucked up fathers. (vice versa).

Our language is toxic along with our values. I won’t even go there then I will alienate half of you, and not in the way you are judging me.

I love people. I love humanity. I feel as if though race is an option I want to be a rainbow color. Brown arms, black face, with blond hair, green legs, yellow eyes, with a beautiful blue chest to represent my soul. And distribute the rest of the colors as needed. None of these colors I picked were for any reason because it doesn’t matter we are a human race. We are a granule of sand in a desert as compared to the earth in this universe.

When will we realize that we are special only to ourselves. We believe and are arrogant enough that we can play God to kill people because of our empirical ways of thinking. Every nation of power wants to impress upon the world its agenda. Why is there war in the first place. Why is there destruction or genocide? Why do leaders think they can be God, Judge and jury of the world and they know best? When will we stop being dishonest and admit we suck as people, from that point we can improve.

I am overwhelmed right now with the thought of how to structure my posts and words that I need to use to get more attention from you the reader. I am losing sight of what was the purpose for my blog in the first place. I do research and try to have a relevant post so anyone can understand and it flows. In the end it all doesn’t matter as long as I connect with you. If I am myself, eventually someone will view my writing as relevant and will connect with my thoughts and views. I do not really care whether the masses agree with me. I am speaking and writing on something that will help people. What I write will help the majority. Those who disagree can find someone else they can agree with. I want everyone to find a voice they can relate to because the important thing here is that we find something or someone to connect with that will help us change our mindset into a positive one.

I write from my heart, experiences and what I observe through my readings and conversations with people. I give the wisdom of my soul an outlet to teach people to love and learn how to be happy and have a life purpose. If what little I know is helpful I will be living an abundant fulfilled life. I have been finding out that the search engines are recording record numbers with the phrase “how to be happy”. Can you imagine?! People actually want to be happy. I thought this world was going to hell and a handbasket. I was losing all hope for humanity and was just waiting to die so I can either move on from this body or transition to nothingness. We do not have a choice in the matter. We are certainly going to die. Our waking conscious will stop. We will be out like a broken porchlight. The other side of that has always been a mystery. It isn’t like someone took a camera with them to prove the existence of another dimension that our energy transfers to and our conscious is aware.

Awareness of this reality we are living in and our perception of it is crucial in our lives. Do we just exist and live aimlessly or do we try and find a purpose for ourselves. If there is nothingness waiting for us what would we have to gain for finding purpose? Is it going to get us something in return? If we think that nothingness is waiting for us then there are no morals to worry about nor any fear or guilt. If we know there is nothing then what are we afraid of…? We should be happy. We should live our lives to experience whatever it is we want to and create for ourselves a wonderful experience. It would be selfish of us to disrespect the person next to us and ruin their experience in life if all we have is a one time around and then it is done. It would be horrible of us to create a toxic environment for our fellow human being if there is nothingness after we are finished and they were trying to make the best experience and it was tainted by your negative outlook and perception.

Our choices are clear. If there is nothingness at the end of our experience here then to decide to live a happy and positive life is the best thing to do because all we have is one go around. Experience life with respecting everyone around you feeling good about yourself and understanding that our mortality serves as a reminder that we have to decide correctly once. If we wake up the next day we have to understand we have another chance to be well. To experience amazing.

I truly believe we have been created and there is something and we have a life purpose. I feel connection to this world and everyone in it. I know that there is a something at the end of this. What I have seen and learned has given me a belief in something great.

I write to help you realize that happiness is the best choice to figure out your problems and focus on your life purpose. If you are happy you have a clear mind to help you focus on the answer. I write because I feel in my essence that we have a purposeful life and we need to figure it out, experience joy will open up the doors by attracting people that want to be around you and want to experience life the way you are. I write because my purpose is to help people, I am passionate about it. I am not a perfect person. I do not carry degrees to give me the authority, license nor do I need them in order to love and share to people what I am about. I am me and I love you.

I speak and share from the heart unconditionally. If you want to join me message me. Subscribe to my blog and get updates. Join our forum. Share this blog to everyone you know through your social accounts. We have to start healing from or negative mindset and stop wasting time and FIND your LIFE Purpose!

Why can’t I be a life coach or mentor? Why is it that I need a certification or a professional license to help people be happy and learn to live happy? IS it the potential life coach salary and the industry alone that makes it impossible to be a life coach just because you love to help people? The life coach certification costs the same as if you were getting a college education. What is a life coach? It is a person that observes your daily activities to determine if you are making healthy decisions towards attaining happiness? I am not sure anymore. The actual meaning behind life coaching has turned very commercial. The real life coaches are amazing individuals that care for the quality of life of an individual and their happiness. The industry is saturated with very professional looking and acting people creating a brand for themselves to make a shitload of money. AS for their compassion for people that is in question.

How can a 24 year old straight out of college give me the knowledge and guidance of my life? Why would I let my life be mentored by someone that does not know a thing about suffering and can appreciate happiness at its essence? How will that young person so naïve and wide-eyed give me the guidance I need to attain my focus. I am sure they have been taught amazing techniques. I am sure their $80k education is formidable.

The life coach jobs are hard to come by if you do not have a certification. I am a happiness mentor. I did not set out to become one. It was given to me by many people that have come to me through the years for help. Even when I am at my lowest they come to me. I love people and I do not want people to feel the loneliness and anxiety I have felt because I thought no one wanted to listen to me as a friend and help me just because without any agenda. I truly only have a handful of people I can call a true friend because they will put their asses on the line for me and be there at any time.

My true friends I do not speak with everyday…once a month if I am lucky…and yet when we get together we are like yesterday.  A good life coach should be like that…someone that feels like they know you inside out and can feel your honesty and love you and mentor you even though you are dishonest. But I guess in the life coach world that is unacceptable. That is not ethical to be so close to a client because it might cross that conflict of interest line. But compassion is not a part of the schooling either. Keep your distance, make a judgement and guide the client. Look…I really don’t know what goes on these people’s heads. All I know the life coaches that I know personally are amazing people to me and I love the few of them that I have the privilege to know and they give me some amazing perspectives on life and how to help people. They chose a very admirable profession. They give me their opinion of how to operate. I respect that. I don’t agree with them but I respect them and they are honest. They are full of shit but at least they are brave enough to tell me like it is.

I have had many relationships with people from all vocational works. I have had family members from all vocations. They all have something in common and began their journey for the same reason. To help People. That is in our nature. So if you want to become a wellness coach, or a life coach, or become a priest, minister or anything to help people…..do it because you are passionate about helping people not passionate about going into a lucrative industry and you will be paid nicely if you have a good game…. Don’t commercialize and whore out on the unhappiness and desperation of people we have enough of those in religion.

I Love You. Remember….Jesus loved everyone unconditionally…. He was an amazing life coach and he did it for free…. (technically)

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