motivation

How to be happy– Learn it!

Do everything in your power mentally and emotionally to maintain your happiness it’s worth it. People these days would rather work hard at being miserable and make another miserable. What is there to gain by being unhappy in your life. What progress Will you make by letting your Life slip away into a sad state of mind. We all need to wake up and realize that our state of mind . will reflect in our health and our exterior circumstances like relationships. The state of mind that I’m speaking about is a happy state of mind. It is a very simple way of thinking but to embark on the journey to maintain it takes work and self discipline. Most people don’t have the courage to take that challenge of being happy every day. The first step is to admit that you’re not happy. The second step is to except that you want to be happy. The next step is to learn how to be happy and the rest will take care of itself. 

If you want to learn more contact me on this website or follow me on Facebook and Instagram and there is enough information there for you to open your mind. 

How to be Happy – Have Faith 

Our lives are so delicate. Yet we are so powerful. We have the capacity to achieve anything we think. Faith is the key. 

We blame others when we fail in achieving what we want. We want the approval and the validation from external instead of being happy with our little improvements towards our goals. We are so judgmental when it comes to our lives. The criticisms of others are baseless yet we take them to heart as if the person criticizing was a judge and jury. 

Story. A girls color guard team had been preparing for competition upcoming. They were excited and felt they were really doing well. Confidence in their routine was high. Their coach got them together to speak to them the final week leading up. In the meeting he told the team that it will be a long trip for the competition, don’t get your hopes up because there is. I way we will place anyway. We are going for fun. But in all reality the competition is a lost cause. 

What??!!! Is this what we tell our children these days? I hope that is not what is being told to are young men in battle, ” oh by the way we are going against the enemy but we are all going to die or be caught. There is no way we will survive they are superior. Nice knowing you thank you very much goodbye! 

We can achieve anything we think. Faith

The girls lost and in last place because they were very down and sad that the coach did not have confidence in them and felt that they wasted their time. 

We are failures in our own mind. We are successful when we change our negative mindset to that of a positive one, not just changing the thoughts but the HABIT of feeling, hoping, and expecting the worse in the outcome. 

The State of Our Society

I cant seem to wrap my head around all the hate and hypocrisy there is in the world. The non-believers hate the believers and say their opinion is an opinion and to respect them. The believers are judgemental and openly critical when their suppose to love unconditionally. The extremists think they are the superior belief system and want the world to bow down. The civilized countries are saying for the world to act accordingly and respect each others differences and yet they practice the opposite. I see people of “faith” constantly barraging their insulting remarks on all social media platforms to all races classifying a small percentage of bad as the majority. I hear the news, radio, read the articles and notice how everyone is ready to jump on a bandwagon out of fear. I do not know what to make of it all and I cannot form a rational opinion of the state we are in. All I know is hate comes in all forms. Society as a whole is going to shit and has been. Everyone wants peace and love and shares how they are loving people and yet they are the ones posting hate.
If someone were to bring the mess to my doorstep I will be ready. I have seen a share of hate and violence in my lifetime, I have had situations where I have been deeply impacted by something that should have made me blame the world… But I still love my neighbor and seek the good in people. I truly try and live by my faith and love unconditionally. People are unpredictable. We cannot read each others minds. We have to be vigilant and aware at all times. NOT run our mouths and create more hate and enemies, or situations where brother against brother, neighbor against neighbor. We have to bond together as a society one by one and not fall victim to shit propaganda from hypocritical thinkers. You know who they are.
I am not afraid. I am concerned for our state. But to be honest every tactic has been approached. Every threat has been tossed. I just want to love. Be vigilant, steadfast and ready. Be aware of my surroundings and watch for inconsistencies. If I have my last breath tomorrow I will know I have taught my children Love first. Agree or disagree….but if you comment look in the mirror first before you spew….. As Always I Love YOU